Mom came out to DC this weekend for my graduation, so I had the luxury of spending a portion of Mother's Day with her. She's en route back to Idaho now, but today I had a flash of a distant memory that reminded me of just how great an impact her example has had on the way I live my life.
Many years ago, I used to play on a competitive soccer team. We participated in big, important tournaments (at least I thought they were at the time), and sometimes my team had games on Sundays. I remember playing one single Sunday game, but never again after that. The details are fuzzy as to what led up to me sitting out the rest of the Sunday games, or whether I did it with a good attitude or not. I'm sure Mom didn't say, "I won't let you play any more games on Sunday," because that's just not the way she leads. She probably reminded me of the the importance of the Sabbath and then allowed me to make the choice for myself.
Whatever the case may be, I realized today that this experience has completely shaped and molded my behavior on the Sabbath and my perception of it. I work hard to make sure that Sunday is special: it's my day to set aside the work and stress from the rest of the week - not such an easy task in grad school. But it is a day I treasure, and always a day I need by the time it comes around. I am grateful to Mom for planting that seed, and I am grateful for this particular day that gives us all a chance to acknowledge her unconditional love, support, and example.
Love you, Mom!
3 comments:
I think the Sabbath is a truly wonderful gift. I decided many years ago not to run on Sunday, a choice that has blessed my life greatly. It flows over into the other aspects of keeping the Sabbath holy. This post reminded me of one of the influences in my life with regard to the Sabbath. As trite as it may seem, the story of Eric Liddell (Chariots of Fire) has had a profound influence on my life. He speaks in the film of the importance of keeping the Sabbath holy. It's really a short line or two in the film, but it has had quite an impact on me. Of equal note, is the impressive and devout Christian life that Eric lived in real life, outside and beyond the movie.
I enjoy the rest and peace that I have on Sunday.It gives me time to reconnect with myself and the Lord, and to reflect on where I'm headed. While life can get really crazy, busy, and stressful, this has been a bastion of peace and a calm refuge in life's storms. Thanks for posting this Abby. It reminds me once again how important this is, and how much I enjoy Sundays.
I am that way with so many parts of my life, even some seemingly non-important parts, because of our incredible mother.
Sorry I am such a bad daughter and forgot to call you on mother's day. I seriously talk to you every day, how did I miss mother's day?? I have to totally agree with everything Abby said in this post. You are such a great mom! The older I get, the more I realize it. You are my eternal example. I love you!
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